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All of the blowing hot and cold manages down your expectations and after a while, you feel OK with what he is offering. He might make references to the future today (Future Faking) but if you bring up the future next week, he’ll tell you off for being needy.

Mr Unavailable is a walking contradiction – He sees himself as Mr Wonderful, a great catch even, when in actual fact, he’s Mr Nightmare. Whatever role he feels like playing, you are expected to jump to his beat and play along.

Since I published my book Mr Unavailable and the Fallback Girl, which focuses on the behaviour of emotionally unavailable men, I’ve had several emails requesting that I discuss the subject of narcissism further because many women do believe that they are going out with a narcissist. For me, someone being a narcissist has always represented someone with excessive self-love, who pretty much fancies themselves. Constantly envious of others or believes that they feel the same about him or her 9.

According to the Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD) group it’s “An all-pervasive pattern of grandiosity (in fantasy or behaviour), need for admiration or adulation and lack of empathy, usually beginning by early adulthood and present in various contexts.” How do you know if he (or she) is a narcissist? Arrogant, haughty behaviours or attitudes coupled with rage when frustrated, contradicted, or confronted.

There are a lot of men out there far worse than me.

I am doing the best I can, I’ve just got a lot going on. If X would just lighten up a bit, stop busting my balls, and appreciate what she’s got, I might just think about getting serious with her…” In amongst his various behaviours, Mr Unavailable tend to have a stock of women on tap, or what some readers refer to as a Narcissistic Harem.

These are the various female family, friends, ex shags, ex-girlfriends, acquaintances, women online, other women he’s dating etc., that he turns to get his ego massaged.

Not only does he get to convince himself that he must be a ‘great guy’ because of all of these women giving him attention, but by spreading himself thin he keeps his distance from everyone but always has a woman to ‘fall back’ on.

**Please note – Since I first started Baggage Reclaim, while it’s still read mainly by women, I have a lot of male readers too, as well as readers in all types of relationship.Well the first thing I have to bluntly ask is, what’s in it for you?They get to avoid certain things and these men reflect negative beliefs that they hold about themselves, love, and relationships.Every single one of these actions are the behaviour of a selfish, egotistical and often deluded man, and they all tie into the three criteria above.For example: They maintain The Status Quo – Mr Unavailables have already defined what you’re going to get from the ‘relationship’.

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