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Let the woman use her “feminine charm”; it’s her legitimate prerogative, a healthy manifestation of her femininity.
Jewish law states that once a young woman begins menstruating, she assumes the status of nidah, and remains, from that point on, “off limits”, in regard to physical contact with men, until the day of her marriage.
To be ruled by one’s emotions and feelings, uncontrolled and undirected by logic, values and clear thinking, with no clear sense of goals and responsibility, is to ignore the only factors which can establish a firm foundation for a permanent and mature life-long relationship.
The theme repeated everywhere in novels and movies is that “I am in love and my love is beyond my control”; “I fell in love”; it was as though someone pushed me off a cliff and it was all accidental and unintentional.
There is no ultimate danger if a girl employs her femininity to charm a young man into turning a fleeting interest into a more serious one.
Young men, however, sometimes deceive a young woman into thinking that they are in love, while all they want is a physical relationship.