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Woo Plus is a dating community which has a lot of real plus size members.
But I’m reminded on a daily basis through messages, DMs, and even personal emails that to find me attractive is fetish-based — something I should The issue doesn’t spawn from the amount of full-length photos I have on my profile — there are enough photos of me; my Instagram is a literally dedication to what I look like.
It’s those messages that start with, “I love BBW girls” or “I have a thing for big girls.” I always respond like this: ‘Do you write this to thin women? The first fat girl they’ve ever dated, slept with, took out to dinner . By sticking to common apps, I’m forcing potential partners to look at me not as a plus-size woman, but just a woman.
Or is it just because I’m fat you want me to feel grateful for this kind of message? As you’re navigating sex and dating as a plus person, do me a favor and don’t forget that you’re not someone’s test. And you’re certainly not making someone into a hero for being into you.
This counts as a revolutionary act as a person of size in 2017: stating to the world that you should swipe right if you’re attracted to me and not worry that you’re going to forever be known as a chubby-chaser.
There’s this misconception in online dating that plus women can’t have standards, value, confidence.